The Stickiness of Urban Legends (Made to Stick Book Review)

What’s your favorite urban legend?  The Kidney Heist?  Bloody Mary?

If you’ve heard those stories before, you can probably recall them; maybe not all of the details, but the general concept, theme and/or idea.

Chip and Dan Heath explore why these stories stand out better than many in their book Made to Stick.  Released in 2007, this book breaks down what makes stories or speeches memorable into six principles: Simple, Unexpected, Concrete, Credible, Emotional and Stories; or SUCCESs.

Simple

The book offers a variety of case studies that show the importance of keeping the core simple.  One of my favorite examples was with Southwest Airlines.  Known as the low-cost carrier that excels in customer service and employee retention, Southwest Airlines internal motto and core idea is “THE low-fare airline.”  Employees are encouraged to reference this during the decision making process.  The example presented in the book was with Chicken Caesar Salad.  Customers like Chicken Caesar Salad – so should they offer this snack on particular flights.  The response from one of the company leaders: Would offering Chicken Caesar Salad on this flight make Southwest “The low-fare airline?”  No. That is the single most important thing.  I haven’t been offered a Chicken Caesar Salad on Southwest flight, have you?

Or, how about the 1992 Clinton campaign motto: “It’s the economy, stupid”?  Simple and succinct.

Unexpected

There are two approaches to generating unexpectedness.  The first is getting attention by breaking a pattern or creating a surprise.  A great example of breaking the pattern comes again from the airline industry.  In this instance, a flight attendant revised the monotonous, repetitive safety announcements we hear whenever we fly a plane.  What did she do?  She broke up the announcement into interesting pieces: “If you haven’t been in an automobile since 1965, the proper way to fasten a seatbelt is…”

While surprise gets our attention, interest keeps out attention.  One approach described is the “gap theory of curiosity.”  It’s like the often heard news teasers: “Which local restaurant received a D on a recent inspection scores? Are you eating there?”

Concrete

Tangible ideas and concepts are easier to understand than abstract ones.  What does justice or loyalty look like?  That is a lot harder to grasp than say a bicycle or avocado.  The more hooks used in the story, the better.  One approach to teaching prejudice in elementary school was described as brown eyes vs. blue eyes.  One day the blue eyes were better, the next day the brown eyes.

A second example described was setting common goals in tangible terms:  Boeing’s 727 was developed with the goal of: seat 131 passengers, fly from Miami to New York nonstop and land on runway 4-22 at LaGuardia (a runway too short for existing passenger planes).

Credible

Credible helps people believe the story or statement.  Search snopes.com for spoof emails about medicine and you will often see references to the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) or the Center for Disease Control (CDC).  References to these groups add credibility to those statements, even in the case when the statements are untrue.

The Heath’s outline two types of credibility:  External Credibility and Internal Credibility.  The above example is using external credibility.  Internal credibility is found when convincing details are used or statistics are made accessible (more visual or easier to grasp).  One test of credibility is called the Sinatra test, from the song New York, New York.  The lyrics: “if you can make it there, you can make it anywhere.”  If you safe guard the results of the Oscars, then you can probably safeguard or company documents.

Emotional

The Mother Teresa principle is a very interesting study.  Participants at University of Pennsylvania were given five $1 bills to take a survey about technology (completely unrelated to the purpose of the study).  Along with the $5, participants received:

  1. A letter detailing the statistics of starving children in Africa
  2. A letter detailing the specifics about a starving child in Africa, Rokia.
  3. Both of the above to letters.

Mother Teresa once said, “If I look at the mass, I will never act.  If I look at one, I will.”  Participants that received the first letter donated $1.14, participants that received the second letter donated on average $2.38 and participants who received both letters donated, surprisingly, $1.43.  The second letter pulls more on our emotions than the first.

Another approach is to appeal to a person’s identity.  Texas addressed their litter problem by implementing a “Don’t mess with Texas” campaign.

Stories

The last principle in Made to Stick deals with stories.  Stories work as simulation – talking shop with co-workers so they know what to expect or “look out for” – or as inspiration, see Chicken Soup for the Soul.  The right story can help convey the message and a great story is often retold multiple times.

SUCCESs

Those are the six principles in Made to Stick.  The outline of these principles is very high level.  If you found these concepts and ideas interesting, I suggest reading the book and related case studies for each principle I didn’t mention.  It’s quite obvious that using these principles in your communications, formal and informal, will help the listeners retain your message.

If you give speeches, talks or presentations for fun or for work, I would strongly suggest reading this book and implementing a few of the SUCCESs principles.  Your speech doesn’t need every principle in it, but I would think at least three of the six.

Success Principle 5: Believe in Yourself

Most entrepreneurs have heard it before:

  • That won’t work
  • You can’t do that
  • Dumb idea
  • Who would use that

Those are the naysayers.  Unfortunately, those types of comments often come from family or friends you have shared your ideas with.  It’s reasonable to assume that most great entrepreneurs also heard the words of naysayers: Michael Dell, Bill Gates, Aaron PatzerSara Blakely and others.

The difference between those people and the entrepreneurs that are still “thinking” about starting a business is they believed in themselves and they turned their belief into action.

The “I Can’t” List

If you are frustrated with lack of progress on a particular item and feel as though you are the only one that believes in it, develop an “I Can’t” list.  Write down all the things you think or someone has told you, you can’t accomplish:

  • I can’t start a business
  • I can’t become successful
  • I can’t be an eloquent, motivating speaker
  • I can’t develop passive income streams
  • Etc.

Once your “I Can’t” list is complete, burn it, tear it, crumble it or simply rip it up and throw it out.  You can do those things.  As Napoleon Hill put it: “whatever the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve.”

Eliminate “I Can’t” From Your Vocabulary

The next time someone tells you, you can’t accomplish something, ignore them.

The next time you think you can’t do it, do it anyways.

If you believe in yourself, you can achieve it.  Eliminate “I can’t” from your vocabulary.

photo credit: Davide Rusconi

Success Principle 4: Believing It’s Possible

This is an interesting story:

Doctors in Texas studying the effect of arthroscopic knee surgery, assigned patients with sore, worn-out knees to one of three surgical procedures: scraping out the knee-joint, washing out the joint, or doing nothing.

During the “nothing” operation, doctors anesthetized the patient, made three incisions in the knee as if to insert their surgical instruments, and then pretended to operate.  Two years after surgery, patients who underwent the pretend surgery reported the same amount of relief from pain and swelling as those who had received the actual treatments.  The brain “expected” the surgery to work and it did.

Overtime, the brain comes to expect outcomes based on the conditions of the situation.  This is apparent in the above story as well as with other similar test in the medical field, like placebo pills.  That is why it is important to have positive expectations for the events of your life.  If you believe it’s possible, your brain will expect you to achieve that outcome.

What are you holding off on because you don’t believe it’s possible?  How would changing your frame of mind change your motivation towards pursuing that opportunity?  Is there harm in believing it is possible?

Finalize Your Vision and Find a Way to Capture It

The past week I focused intently on clarifying MY vision for the 7 categories defined in The Success Principles.  I finished four (1, 2, 3 and 4) of the seven categories which hopefully gave you (the reader) an example of how to complete this task.  There are three categories that need clarification: relationships, personal goals and contributions to the larger community.  I’m not sure sharing my vision for the remaining categories will be beneficial when compared to the first four categories reviewed.

First of all, I know the personal goals of these seven categories are addressed later.  I’ve spent time in the past defining details of goals that I hope to accomplish in my life and will update and share those later, but not at this point… just know that they are there and will require more focus than what is asked here.  Defining ideal relationships in this setting is pretty awkward and boring for the reader, so let’s skip it.  And you can probably imagine what to include in contributions to the larger community… in fact, some of such contributions were in my 30 things.

To get you thinking about your vision for each of these items, some stimulating questions follow:

Relationships

  • Describe the ideal relationship with your family and friends
  • What is your relationship like?
  • Who are your friends?
  • What is the quality of relationships with your friends?
  • What do those friendships feel like?
  • Are they loving, supportive, empowering?
  • What kinds of things do you do together?

Personal

  • Describe the personal arena of your life.
  • Are you going back to school, getting training, attending workshops, seeking therapy for a past hurt or growing spiritually?
  • Do you meditate or go on spiritual retreats with your church?
  • Do you want to learn to play an instrument or write your autobiography?
  • Do you want to run a marathon or take an art class?
  • Do you want to travel to other countries?

Community

  • Focus on the community you live in, the community you’ve chosen.
  • What does it look like when it is operating perfectly?
  • What kinds of community activities take place there?
  • What about your charitable work?
  • What do you do to help others make a difference?
  • How often do you participate in these activities?
  • Who are you helping?

Capturing Your Vision

Once you know your vision, how are you capturing it?  Where are you documenting your ideal life?  What you write down is big, important stuff… at least in your life.  Value and treasure it.  Don’t simply jot it down on a notebook.  Buy a journal and take the time to document it there.  Once you clarify your vision, you should review it often.  Keep it fresh in  your mind and use a tool that is durable for the frequent use it should receive.

I’ve found time to write about my vision on this site, but also capture it in a nice journal I picked up.  Not only to I review the items in the journal (almost) daily, I take the journal with me as I go to work or travel.  If inspiration hits and I find something to add to my 30 things, my vision or my goals, I don’t have to wait to do it.  Value the information you are capturing.  It is important.  Don’t take it for granted.

book credit: The Success Principles

Clarifying Your Vision: Free Time and Health

Work to live or live to work?  I’ll take the former.  And what good is free time without good health?  The following are steps 3 and 4 of the 7 steps to clarifying your vision.

Free Time:

  • What are you doing with your family and friends in the free time you’ve created for yourself?  We spend a lot of our time traveling to new and interesting locations.  Our family takes two annual trips: one to a tropical location and the second to country or location we have never been before.  When we are not traveling we spend time together reading or doing outdoor activities such as hiking or various sports.
  • What hobbies are you pursuing? I participate in Ironmans, marathons and perhaps even ultra-marathons.  I have a team of friends that complete an adventure race every year or two.
  • What kinds of vacations do you take? Exciting and adventurous vacations.
  • What do you do for fun? Finding challenging things to accomplish.

Health:

  • What is your ideal vision for your body and physical health? Great shape.  Superior condition. My physical body is able to complete long, challenging endurance races and my mental mindset does not interfere with these accomplishments.
  • How long do you live? I’m alive and active into my 90’s.
  • Are you open, relaxed, and in an ecstatic state of bliss all day long? You bet.
  • Flexible and strong? Yes – I need to work on this.
  • Do you exercise, eat good food, drink lots of water? Yes.  I’m a conscious eater and exercise frequently. 

Clarifying your vision is a tedious task.  It’s difficult to fully capture everything succinctly.  It’s probably best to consider this a constant work in progress.  As your ideals and visions change, you should update the different sections of your vision to reflect those changes.

Are you clarifying your vision?  Share it by posting a link in the comments.