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The past week I focused intently on clarifying MY vision for the 7 categories defined in The Success Principles.  I finished four (1, 2, 3 and 4) of the seven categories which hopefully gave you (the reader) an example of how to complete this task.  There are three categories that need clarification: relationships, personal goals and contributions to the larger community.  I’m not sure sharing my vision for the remaining categories will be beneficial when compared to the first four categories reviewed.

First of all, I know the personal goals of these seven categories are addressed later.  I’ve spent time in the past defining details of goals that I hope to accomplish in my life and will update and share those later, but not at this point… just know that they are there and will require more focus than what is asked here.  Defining ideal relationships in this setting is pretty awkward and boring for the reader, so let’s skip it.  And you can probably imagine what to include in contributions to the larger community… in fact, some of such contributions were in my 30 things.

To get you thinking about your vision for each of these items, some stimulating questions follow:

Relationships

• Describe the ideal relationship with your family and friends
• What is your relationship like?
• Who are your friends?
• What is the quality of relationships with your friends?
• What do those friendships feel like?
• Are they loving, supportive, empowering?
• What kinds of things do you do together?

Personal

• Describe the personal arena of your life.
• Are you going back to school, getting training, attending workshops, seeking therapy for a past hurt or growing spiritually?
• Do you meditate or go on spiritual retreats with your church?
• Do you want to learn to play an instrument or write your autobiography?
• Do you want to run a marathon or take an art class?
• Do you want to travel to other countries?

Community

• Focus on the community you live in, the community you’ve chosen.
• What does it look like when it is operating perfectly?
• What kinds of community activities take place there?
• What about your charitable work?
• What do you do to help others make a difference?
• How often do you participate in these activities?
• Who are you helping?

Capturing Your Vision

Once you know your vision, how are you capturing it?  Where are you documenting your ideal life?  What you write down is big, important stuff… at least in your life.  Value and treasure it.  Don’t simply jot it down on a notebook.  Buy a journal and take the time to document it there.  Once you clarify your vision, you should review it often.  Keep it fresh in  your mind and use a tool that is durable for the frequent use it should receive.

I’ve found time to write about my vision on this site, but also capture it in a nice journal I picked up.  Not only to I review the items in the journal (almost) daily, I take the journal with me as I go to work or travel.  If inspiration hits and I find something to add to my 30 things, my vision or my goals, I don’t have to wait to do it.  Value the information you are capturing.  It is important.  Don’t take it for granted.

book credit: The Success Principles